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The second 'M' in the word Communicate is "Movement"!  This 'M' is the catalyst to building healthy relationships in life.  You must take action in order to create vibrant, healthy relationships not only with others, but with yourself as well.   We must Care first, then Observe and find ways to Make Time to communicate, but these are not effective unless we "MOVE!" We often visualize and dream about how we want things to be.  We find ourselves wishing and dreaming our lives away as our relationships go nowhere.  This is because we fear "Movement".  Movement causes change and change can cause discomfort.  We are led from the comfort of our thoughts into reality.  Reality can cause fear because we can't truly control all the aspects of it.  There are others who can influence it and distract us from what we desire.  In a dream we can control all aspects and make our relationships so 'fairy tale' like.  We can change this as...

The headlines are booming about Senator Walsh's plagiarism on his War Thesis.  The critics are out and the country is all a "buzz"! What about your life?  Are you truly living your life's purpose, dreams and passions?  Or... Are you just plagiarizing  your life?   We allow ourselves to get conditioned by the media, friends, family, etc, that we fail to actually step out and live our lives.  We criticize those who are different.  We judge those who do things that are out of the supposed "normal"!  What if they are just living their lives and passions?  They seem happy. Are you? You need to stop!  Stop and look at your life.  Evaluate your dreams and passions and discover how to make them a reality.  I was talking to an individual the other day.  She is successful and has much, much more to offer.  As we talked, she discovered that her life is in a rut.  Her life balance is out of balance.  Just as your ve...

We are moving forward in order to create healthier and stronger relationships and communication processes. We had started with the 'C' for Care and then the 'O' for Observe.  Now it's time to move on to the first 'M' for 'Make Time'. This is such an important aspect to our ability to communicate not only with others, but with ourselves!  Time never stops and continues moving.  We can't stop time, but we can influence it.  Do you use the excuse that you don't have time to communicate with someone or take time for yourself?  I'm sure you do!  Healthy and strong communication takes time.  You may need to find some ways to influence your time so that you truly communicate and listen to you, your loved ones, those you work with and even to those you pass by.  When you make time to listen, you are using the 'C'-Care and 'O'-observe in order to truly understand the needs of others and of yourself! Making time seems to be...

STOP!  Time to stop labeling who you are through your behaviors.  Think about this for a second......  Do you label who you are based on your behaviors?  Think about how you approach who you are and how you identify with yourself!  This is just one small aspect to how we create a life that can make us feel trapped, depressed, and going nowhere! In the book "The Prayer of Jabez" by Wilkinson, I found this sentence that makes sense.  "What counts in knowing what you want to be and asking for it!"  When's the last time you even asked yourself for what you want? Learn how to move forward in life and overcome pessimism; The Unrealistic Negativity! Contact us today as we have an awesome program right now….1000 clients who want to make a change!  Simple customized program just for you….can be just one simple process that can help you empower yourself for lifelong happiness….you are the solution!  Contact us today as this is an amazing opportu...

The "O" is part two in this process as we spell out Communicate!  "C" was to care and we understand that we must truly care first.  What about this "O"? "O": Observe.  This is the next step in better understanding those you interact with as you journey through life.  Looking up the definition of "observe" generates two major themes.  The first definition of observe gives us a theme of noticing, perceiving something or someone and to make note as being significant.  Our second definition takes us on the theme that we fulfill or comply with.... a social, legal, religious, ethical or other obligation.  With those two definitions in mind, which one truly is important in our quest to build stronger communication and relationships? The answer to that question actually encompasses both meanings.  When we find that we truly care in a relationship, we then begin to notice the other person(s) and make our interaction significant.  Often tim...